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Dec
11

Sex Education for Adolescents

Posted by Waikhu

"According to a national study by the Alan Guttmacher Institute in 1988, about 85% of all schools offer sexuality education" (Kirby et al., 1994). Debate exists over the type of sex education which should be taught in schools. Currently, there are three models of sex education.

Model #1 Comprehensive Sex Education

This model is based on the assumption that teens are going to have sex no matter what, so sex education should focus on reducing the risks associated with sex, such as pregnancy and disease. Advocates of this model believe the following:

  • Teenage sexual activity is inevitable
  • Sex education should be value-neutral
  • Schools should be open about sexual matters
  • Information about contraceptives should be included in sex education (Lickona, 1993)

Model #2 "Abstinence, But"

This model is based on the idea that abstaining from sex is the only 100% sure way of preventing pregnancy and disease; however, due to the AIDS epidemic, it is imperative that those teens who choose to have sex anyway are educated about contraceptives in order to lower their risks. Proponents of this model do the following:

  • Advocate that students practice safer sex through condom usage
  • Teach abstinence while promoting condom usage (Lickona, 1993)

Model #3 Directive Sex Education

This model evolved in response to the failure of the previous two models. It focuses on promotion of values to keep teens from having sex. This model contains the following characteristics:

  • Sexual abstinence is the only morally responsible and medically safe choice for unmarried teenagers
  • Premarital sex is not responsible sex just because a condom is used
  • Having sex with your marriage partner who is only having sex with you, is the only way to have sex safely (Lickona, 1993)

Effective Sex Education Programs:

  • Focus on reducing only a few sexual risk taking behaviors
  • Teach young people how to avoid sex or how to use contraceptives
  • Provide basic, accurate information on the risks of unprotected sex
  • Address social and media influences on sexual behavior
  • Provide modeling and communication skills
  • Emphasize behavioral values and norms (Kirby et al., 1994)

Examples of Effective School-Based Sex Education Programs

  • Sex Respect
    • Deals with peer pressure and dating
    • Promotes abstinence from sexual intercourse by teaching respect for self and others
    • Uses cartoons
    • Comes with a syllabus for the teacher, a student textbook, and a guidebook for the
    • student's family
    • Effectiveness: Teens in this program showed a significant amount of change in their attitudes towards premarital sex. Changes in attitude were shown to have a positive effect on actual sexual behaviors (Olsen et al., 1991).
  • Schinke-Blythe-Gilchrest.
    • Stresses that teenagers should avoid having sex or use some form of birth control during sex
    • Talks about media influences on teen sexuality
    • Includes discussion on "lines" used to get someone to have sex
    • Effectiveness: Teens who were sexually active before involvement in this program showed an increase in contraceptive use after the program (Kirby et al., 1994).
  • Postponing Sexual Involvement
    • Designed for middle school students
    • Focuses on helping young teens to delay sex
    • Talks about media influences on teen sexuality
    • Includes discussion on "lines" used to get someone to have sex
    • Effectiveness: This program helped teens to delay first intercourse, as well as decreasing the frequency of intercourse among those teens who were previously sexually active (Kirby et al., 1994).
  • Reducing the Risk
    • Discusses how certain situations might lead to sex
    • Talks about social factors that discourage teens from using birth control
    • Stresses that teenagers should avoid having sex or use some form of birth control during sex
    • Effectiveness: This program helped teens to delay first intercourse (Kirby et al., 1994).
  • AIDS Prevention for Adolescents in School
    • Targets teens who are at higher risk for contracting AIDS
    • Emphasizes avoiding risky situations and using condoms
    • Talks about media influences on teen sexuality
    • Includes discussion on "lines" used to get someone to have sex
    • Effectiveness: Sexually experienced teens in this program showed an increase in condom usage (Kirby et al., 1994).

According to 1994 studies by Kirby and associates, teenagers in school-based programs that emphasized contraceptive usage were found to use such devices more frequently. Additionally, these studies showed that providing information on contraception delayed or had no effect upon the time of first intercourse. In contrast, a 1986 Lou Harris Poll indicates that teens who took a sex education class that included information on contraception were significantly more likely to begin having sex than teens whose sex education classes did not include information on contraceptives (Lickona, 1993). These contrasting results are typical in studies that explore the effectiveness of sex education programs.

Besides having contradictory results, it should be noted that different sex education programs have different outcomes in mind. For example, comprehensive sex education aims to prevent teens from getting pregnant or getting a disease through sexual intercourse. On the other hand, directive sex education's goal is to prevent teens from having premarital sex altogether. While both types of sex education have shown a degree of success, the question still remains as to whether or not it is better to teach kids abstinence, or to hand them a condom and expect that they will have sex no matter what kind of instruction they receive. In any case, more research needs to be done on this topic.

The issue of sexual crimes is one topic that often goes unmentioned in teen sex education programs. Because so many young people are the victims or perpetrators of such crimes, this issue needs to be addressed more thoroughly.

To Read More:

  • Kasun, J.R. (1994). Condom nation. Policy Review,68, 79-82.
  • Krueger, M.M. (1993). Everyone is an exception: assumptions to avoid in the sex education classroom. Phi Delta Kappan, 74, 569-572.
  • Tapia, A. (1993). The radical choice for sex ed. Christianity Today, 37, 24-29.

The Lack Of Contraceptive Information In Sexual Education Programs

Angela Coble

Sexual education in school systems has been adopted by many states in the country. However, it is the states' right to choose the content and time period that this particular cirricula will be introduced to the adolescent students. " Six states, however, actually prohibit discussion of particular topics, such as contraceptive use by unmarried minors, abortion or homosexuality." (Fischler and Pine, 1995) Adolescents lack the overall knowledge of what contraception is, where to obtain it, and how to effectively use it.

The rates of unplanned teenage pregnancies are overwhelmingly high. " As is documented… the result is about 1,000,000 unwanted teenage pregnancies each year in the United States.". (Byrne, 1983) A major contributing factor to this statistic is the lack of contraceptive information available to adolescents. " If contraception information is included in sexuality education programmes, it is associated with fewer pregnancies due to more effective use of contraception." (Fischler and Pine, 1995) One study concluded that "…increasing the legitimacy and availability of contraception and sex education is likely to result in declining teenage pregnancy rates." (Fischler and Pine, 1995)

The following key contraceptive concepts should be introduced to sexual education programs:

  • various types of contraception available (birth control, condoms etc..)
  • effectiveness of the contraceptive device in preventing pregnancy and sexually
  • transmitted diseases
  • places to obtain the contraception (clinics, family practicioner etc…)

Providing the answers to the previous statements would be quite beneficial to the student.

Many sexual education programs focus completely on the rule of abstinence. This rule disregards the sexually active adolescent youth. " Fewer than one-third of state guides include any sexual behavior topic other than abstinence". (Fischler and Pine, 1995)

The lack of contraceptive information availble to adolescents is disturbing. Providing a more extensive sexual education program would dramatically contribute to the adolescents sexual decisions and overall knowledge about contraception. " Knowledge and information about sexuality and contraception has been shown to contribute to increased contraceptive use, particularly among teengers." (Fischler and Pine, 1995)

The next step is to implement contraception into our sexual education programs. The knowledge of contraception has been linked to the reduction in teenage pregnancy, and that benefit alone should be reason enough to include extensive education about contraception into our existing sexual education programs.

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Nov
24

Teen having Sex First time

Posted by Admin

Choosing "No"
The decision of whether or not to have sex is up to you.

Why Don't Teens Protect Themselves if They Are Having Sex?

  • They are embarrassed about buying or getting condoms;
  • feel peer/date pressure;
  • use alcohol and drugs;
  • have a lack of knowledge;
  • believe using birth control pills is enough protection;
  • are embarrassed about asking questions; and,
  • don't think ahead of time.

Sex For the First Time

Just having sex for the first time can be a huge emotional event. There many questions and feelings that you may want to sort out before you actually get "in the heat of the moment."

Questions about yourself:

  • Am I really ready to have sex?
  • How am I going to feel about myself after I have sex?
  • How am I going to feel about my partner afterwards?
  • Am I doing this for the right reasons?

Questions about your upbringing:

  • How do your parents feel about you having sex?
  • What is the position of your church, synagogue or temple on the subject?
  • Will you have to lie about having sex later?
  • Will you feel guilty?

Questions about your health:

  • How do you plan to protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases or pregnancy?
  • Will your decisions affect your mental or social health?
  • Are you well informed on the possible consequences of a pregnancy or an STD?

Good things to remember

  • You are never truly alone. There is always some help somewhere for you. Find a friend you trust, your school nurse or counselor, or maybe even your mom or dad. Talk with them.

  • A local STD clinic will help you know what you can be tested for and when testing will be accurate. Remember, if you decide to have sex, you can decide not to have sex any more until you're ready.

Something to Think About

Deciding to have sex or not is probably one of the biggest decisions you will have to make. You do not have to have sex before you are ready. It's OK to decide to wait to have sex if that is what you wish. Sex can be fun, but "fun" only lasts for a moment. Other possible consequences of sex, such as an STD or an unplanned pregnancy, can last for a lifetime. Whatever your decision is, be prepared to look at yourself in the morning.

What if Sex Was Forced?

If you live in an abusive household or if you are a survivor of rape or date rape, find help soon so that you can feel safe and start to heal. This is a scary experience and can make you feel guilty, angry, dirty and responsible. Always remember that it was not your fault and look for help. School counselors or local rape crisis centers can be helpful.

Some girls think it's cool to date older guys. Just remember that older guys may be ready for sex when you're not. If you have an older boyfriend who wants to have sex, remember it's your choice, you decide.


Choosing "Yes"

Deciding to have sexual intercourse with another person is a very personal and private matter. You, and no one else, can make that decision. However, in this Web site, we help get you thinking about your body, emotions, personal values and life goals so that you can make a wise choice if, when and how you choose to have sex.

Why Do Some Teens Have Sex?

Here are a few of the reasons that some teenagers decide to have sex. As you read this list, try to think of which of these reasons would affect you the most. Do you think these answers are good reasons or bad reasons?

Some Teenagers Have Sex Because:

  • They want to feel accepted.
  • It feels good.
  • It's "cool" to have sex.
  • It's easier to have sex than to talk about it or say no.
  • They want feel close to someone.
  • They feel peer pressure.
  • They're in love.
  • They want to experiment.
  • They have raging hormones.

Some Things to Think About Before You Have Sex:

  • Is this something I really want to do at this point in my life?
  • Am I emotionally ready for all the feelings a sexual relationship brings up?
  • Am I ready to make some life-changing decisions if this results in a pregnancy?
  • Am I taking precautions to prevent sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) or pregnancy?
  • Am I being pressured into having sex even though it's not what I want to do?
  • Am I going to feel bad afterwards if this goes against my personal values or I wasn't really ready?

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Nov
24

Differences Between Love and Sex

Posted by Admin

Teens

Sex vs. Love

Love and sex are NOT the same thing. Love is an emotion or a feeling. There is no one definition of love because the word "love" can mean many different things to many different people. Sex, on the other hand, is a biological event. Even though there are different kinds of sex, most sexual acts have certain things in common. Sex may or may not include penetration.

Differences Between Love and Sex

Love

  • Love is a feeling (emotional).
  • There is no exact "right" definition of love for everybody.
  • Love involves feelings of romance and/or attraction.

Sex:

  • Sex is an event or act (physical).
  • There are different kinds of sex but all kinds of sex have some things in common.
  • Can happen between a male and a female, between two females, between two males, or by one's self (masturbation)

Abstinence

The word for not having sex is called abstinence. Some people, especially people who think it's not cool to wait to have sex, think that abstinence is a completely bad thing. Actually, there are some really good things about abstinence and some of them might apply to you.

  • Abstinence, or not having oral, vaginal or anal sex, is the best way to protect yourself. It is possible to get an STD even without having intercourse (penetrative sex) through skin-to-skin contact (herpes and genital warts can be passed this way).

  • You also have to think about your own personal values and feelings. Your teenage years bring a lot of changes in how you feel about yourself, family, friends and potential love interests–even if you don't think about sex. No matter what your feelings on sex are, it may be smart to wait until something "feels right."

Ways to Express Love Without Sex

There are millions of nonsexual ways to show someone you like them. You can show a person you care for them by spending time with them. Go to the movies. Or just hang out and talk. If you are with someone you really like, then anything can be fun. There are other ways to feel physically close without having sex. These ways include everything from kissing and hugging to touching and petting each other. Just remember that if you're not careful these activities can lead to sex. Plan beforehand just how far you want to go, and stick to your limits. It can be difficult to say NO and mean it when things get hot and heavy.

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